Night Clubs...

...are just not for me,lol. My dh and I had alot of fun going out Friday, but we would have had more fun somewhere else. I feel so old. Maybe if I could dance or play pool we would have had more fun. I am terrible at both of these things, and even have a sore thumb from trying to figure out how to hit the pool balls with the stick(stick burn). This place was also very "adult content". I think a strip club would have been a little less "adult ".

We felt pretty lame when DH got picked out of a drawing to get $20 in club bucks to be handcuffed to a random girl for 15 minutes. When he went to get the handcuffs on they saw his ring and were like"your married?" and he was like "yes". They wanted to know were his wife was and he said "she is here". Then the girl he was handcuffed to insisted on going to get me. Dh found out that she went to the same school as him and that her family lives in the same subdivison as one of his sisters. The poor girl wanted to dance with a random guy and got stuck talking about boring stuff with a married guy and his wife,lol. She was the first one back at the booth when the 15 minutes was up.

From now on we will stick to concerts when we want to have fun with a large crowd.We really enjoy going to these. We might also take a dance class, since Dh says my dancing was so terrible(blush).

cost break down

motel: $45.xx /stayed at extended stay america and booked through hotwire(mypoints merchant)

booze we bought before going out: $9.xx for me and $10 for DH = $19

Drinks and cost to get in club: $5 for DH to get in , was ladies night so no cost for me. spent way to much on drinks for me at the bar, and I didn't even get drunk:(, seems like the drinks were very weak $35 tips included =$40

total =$104

DH decide he would rather wait to drink till we went back to the motel, so we didn't need a taxi.

I really feel this was money well spent(expect the money spent at the bar).Bonding time with Dh is very important. We are together everyday, but most of the time we are so busy caring for the children , getting chores done(or not,lol), getting lost in our own seperate world's, and day to day task we aren't really"together", we are just in the same space.

It was so nice to have that time for just one another. Even in the evenings when we put the kids down for bed we don't get that kind of quality time because one kid is teething like crazy(3 going on 4 new teeth in the past 4 weeks:( ), the other kid is in out of her bed 3-4 times getting"drinks" and "going potty"(she is worried she is missing out on fun when she gets put to bed), and then there are all the distractions like the computer, neighbors, etc.

Total left to spend for the month of September
Grocery $2.53
Misc $12.74
Clothing $46.33
Fun $-19